The right attitude is to be steady and follow the Father’s Will no matter what.

12 “Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened unto you:”

13 “But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ’s sufferings; that, when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy.”

1 Peter 4:12-13

Rejoice ye are partakers of His suffering.